27 Fun, Unique Date Ideas To Help You Reconnect With Your Spouse

Disclosure: I was given two free passes to iFly Indoor Skydiving in Rosemont. All thoughts and opinions are my own.   

Every mama needs a break, right? Well every daddy/spouse needs a break too. Not only do we all need breaks but we all need opportunities to reconnect with one another. Let’s be honest, parenting is hard. Sure there are moments that feel easy, but overall the business of raising tiny humans is pretty draining on me, my husband and our marriage.

My husband and I have not been good about nurturing our marriage throughout parenthood. Throughout miscarriages; a stillbirth; raising two, living children and one who has been in and out of the hospital this year, we have really struggled to create opportunities for ourselves to reconnect.

For us a good date night can usually re-center us. Not only that but it can also help us to remember why we chose to go through this life together either through great, adult conversation or just plan ol’ fun.

I’ve created a list of 25 fun, unique date ideas that I’m hoping he and I can do throughout the next year. Some of these we have already done and loved them, which is why we want to do them again. Others on this list we have never done but I’m hoping we can make room for them in our busy loves. After all, when our marriage is in good shape, we are better parents.

1. Take a dance class

Ok this first one is sort of for me. I would love to get my husband and I into a dance class. It doesn’t have to be ballroom dancing, but I think he might prefer that to something like hip hop. J I also think he would be really good at this! Whether we end up floating across the dance floor or stepping on each other’s toes, we would have fun laughing about it.

2. Pub trivia night

I haven’t done this since collage but I actually think that we would have a blast. I’m sure we would both be apprehensive at first. However, some of these are about getting out of our comfort zone because when we do it together it becomes a bonding experience.

3. iFly Indoor Skydiving

We just did this the other night! We were given a chance to try iFly Indoor Skydiving for free and it was an amazing experience. We went to the facility in Rosemont, Ill. and were given an explanation of what it would be like in the wind tunnel. Then we suited up. You guys, he didn’t want to do it but he was amazing! I wanted to do it, but I was awful!

My husband was able to use his second flight “dive” to go with the instructor straight to the top. In fact, everyone did that, except for me. However, he was really supportive about it and it is actually something I want to try again. I have a feeling we will be going back.

4. Go kayaking

We’ve been wanting to do this for years now and we still haven’t had a chance to do so. I’m hoping this is the summer we make it happen. I’ve heard from friends that we each need our own boat or it might end in divorce. I’m going to take that advice. Hopefully he will come after me if I float down the river.

5. Binge watch and binge out

We have a couple of shows we are working through together on Netflix, but we’ve actually only sat down and binged a season of something once. Last summer we sat our butts on the couch, in the nice air conditioning and watched Stranger Things together. We made an amazing pizza and then ate Swedish Fish until our hearts and tummies were content. What was great about this was the time we spent in each other’s presence, which we don’t often do during the week when we are running to work, appointments and trying to run a household. It was a nice change of pace for us.

6. Take a cooking class together

We have yet to do this one too but we have always wanted to. Places like Sur La Table offer these types of classes each weekend and you can learn to make a variety of yummy dishes. You do usually have to book this in advance, which has been out issue.

7. Make beer together

Dance class was for me. This one is for my husband. Before we had children he would make beer in our kitchen and smell it up for days. He really enjoyed it and I think this could be something fun for him to teach me.

8. Karaoke

I generally try to avoid making a fool of myself, but someone brought a karaoke machine to Christmas this year and it was fun! Did we sound good? Nope. Did we look good? Nope. Did we have fun? We were laughing like crazy. That’s what counts.

9. Go to a square dance

Google this in your area and I bet you’ll find a group of people near you that have banded together for a little dosido. It took me two seconds to find a place near us to swing my partner round-n-round. We are doing it. I’m not going to tell him though. This one will just be a surprise.  🙂

10. Write out your before (insert age) bucket list.

We are in our upper 30’s and there are so many things I want to experience with my husband and with my family before we hit the big 4-0. We also never really talk about our future in this was now that we are sort of living this life. We get so caught up in the day-to-day. I think this will be a good way to refocus our life goals as a family and as a couple.

11. Have a picnic without the kids

Do not take those kids with you! Go by yourselves. Pack a cooler, grab a blanket, find a tree and cop a squat under it with your significant other. Enjoy the silence. Enjoy the space around you with just one another in it.

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12. Take a tour of your local city

We live near a large city but it’s kind of funny how often we will be there and just walk past things without appreciating them. I’m hoping we can take a boat tour this summer, but there are also Segways, bus tours, walking tours, etc. Depending on the time of the year a lot of city’s have haunted tours too.

13. Play gourmet

Go to the gourmet grocery store and pick out a meal together. Pick it out together from a gourmet magazine and make it together. We don’t often cook together, but when we do I’m always amazed at the different skills we each bring to the table.

14. Take a workout class together

Find something you would both love to do or that you think would be fun to try and learn. Belly dancing? Boxing? Spin? Any of those would work and I bet you’ll find that sweating it out together will not only relieve stress but also help those endorphins for both of you.

15. Brewery/winery tour and tasting

We’ve done both of these, although we haven’t done either since before having kids. We haven’t done the winery thing since before we were married. It’s been a long time my friends and it’s time for us to relax with one another with a nice beverage in our hands while in the presence of other adults.

16. Create your own tasting tour of a city

Pick a food! Cupcakes, sushi, popcorn, steak, ice cream, hot dogs, Italian beef, pizza, etc. Spend the day with one another ducking into little places where you can grab a really quick taste of whatever your city is known for or whatever new fad is popping up.

17. Rent a cool car and get lost

I have a dream of being one of those women in the movies with a bandana around my head, big sunglasses on and waving goodbye from a vintage car as we head down a dirt road. Can you see the Instagram image now? Really though, I’ve always wanted to ride in one of those vintage convertibles and sort of get lost for the day – exploring whatever town we stumble upon.

18. Drive-in movies

We have one of these left near us but they are a dying breed, my friends. Do this while you still can. We did it once when we were dating but now we have a family SUV and I’m imagining bean bags, popcorn and holding hands as we watch whatever double feature is playing.

19. Find a trail to explore

I know some couples might hike together a lot but we don’t. We actually have never done it and this is another one we have always talked about doing. We are trying to be more active lately and the quiet of the woods would be nice.

20. Ice skating in the off season

Sure you can do this anytime during the winter but we love the idea of going in the off season. There is a skating rink right down the road from us and we haven’t done this as a couple since we’ve been married. (We did do this with our daughter as a family.)

21. Take a hot air balloon ride

With summer just around the corner we are fast approaching festival season. We have one festival here called Eyes to The Skies and it is all about hot air balloon rides. I’ve always wanted to do this and I’m hoping this will be our year.

22. Take a tandem bike ride

We did this together before we were married and talk about an exercise in team work! We had a ton of fun and I think doing this again would be a great bonding experience as well as be a little nostalgic.

23. Bike the “whatever” together

We did this recently on a trip to California when we biked the Golden Gate Bridge. It was one of the most fun things we’ve done together in a really long time. We had the best day and we actually wished we could have canceled our dinner reservations (they had our credit card) because we wanted to go even further.

24. Go to an outdoor concert

I’m really hoping we can cross this one off the list this summer because there is a perfect venue near us for taking in a summer concert. In fact there are multiple places where we could go to do this near us. I bet there are places near you too. Even if you have to drive an hour or two I think this could be the perfect night out.

25. Volunteer together

I love the idea of doing this together and this is actually one I would add to a family list too. I think we could pick a cause we both feel passionately about and find a way to volunteer. Whether it’s putting together care packages or helping at a soup kitchen, I think this would be good for our individual souls and our couple karma.

26. Spend an evening at the arcade

Again we’ve done this as a family but I would love to spend an evening with just us kicking each other’s butts on some old school arcade games.

27. Chocolate factory/Cookie factory/Candy factory tour

You might have to drive a little bit for this, but I bet if you look you could find one of these near you. We actually have a few of varying distances depending on how far we want to go. They are all within an hour and a half though so it’s perfect for a day date.

What other unique ideas do you have? Let me know in comments!

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  • Diedre May 17, 2017 03.59 pm

    Such great ideas! There are so many things on this list that my husband and I have yet to try.

  • Robin Rue (@massholemommy) May 17, 2017 04.47 pm

    We cook together a lot and it really is a lot of fun. It takes teamwork to make a great meal happen! I will try some of these other things for sure 🙂

  • Kristina May 17, 2017 05.53 pm

    These are all great ideas. Marriage is so important and with kids it can change so it’s important to keep the romance and spark alive. To spend quality time together.

  • Samantha -Raising Twincesses May 17, 2017 06.36 pm

    So many fabulous date night ideas!!! I definitely want to try indoor sky diving and hot air ballooning, now I just have to convince my scared of heightsn hubby!

  • Jane Davidson May 17, 2017 07.49 pm

    I would like to do ALL of these!! So fun! We definitely get in a dinner and a movie rut. YOu have put together some really fun and unique date night ideas!

  • crazylifewithlittles May 17, 2017 08.53 pm

    I would love to do indoor skydiving although I’m not sure my husband would go for it. He would be down with the cookie factory tour LOL

  • Karen Morse May 17, 2017 09.12 pm

    The binge watch and binge out are calling my name! I am still getting over a bad cold and would love an evening of some wine and homemade pizza and binge watching something fab on Netflix! Perfect idea!

  • mmjt May 17, 2017 09.46 pm

    These are some great date ideas!! So creative and fun! Love the idea of going to the arcade together. So fun!

  • OvenStruck May 18, 2017 02.38 am

    This is such a fun list. We have done the indoor skydiving and that was a blast! We also, more than I’d like to admit, take part in the binge as well lol

  • Marcie in Mommyland (@marciemommyland) May 18, 2017 02.38 am

    It’s so hard to focus on marriage when parenthood gets tough. Kudos that you survived and pulled through your heartache. We have an iFly near us and it would be the perfect date night because I’m terrified to do it! Always good to push boundaries and get out of my comfort zone.

  • Voice of Vera May 18, 2017 03.55 am

    Number 5 and 6 are definitely mt top picks. My hubby and I love to watch shows together. He loves to cook so id enjoy taking a class with him. All of your ideas are great.

  • daniella flores May 18, 2017 04.22 am

    These are some great ideas for trying to re kindle a flame in a relationship!

  • sunshineandmunchkins May 18, 2017 04.26 am

    So many great ideas! I would love the sky diving one. My husband has been before but it was over 10 years ago before we met.

  • Elizabeth O. May 18, 2017 07.59 am

    Date night is always important especially when you have kids. Some alone time with each other will help keep your bond strong and the fire burning. I love these ideas!

  • Amanda Love May 18, 2017 08.05 am

    Dong something together is a great way to strengthen your relationship and just have fun. It’s important that couples, especially the married ones, have a date from to time.

  • Jessica Joachim May 18, 2017 10.24 am

    All of these sound like so much fun! My husband won’t do some of these, like the Hot Air balloon (though I have tried, he isn’t a fan of heights). I have been wanting to do a cooking class as a date night though.

  • Sheila May 18, 2017 03.42 pm

    I love these ideas! I’ve always wanted to do the indoor skydiving, that’s so cool that you guys did that. My husband and I really like going to the batting cages for dates during baseball season, so hopefully we can do that soon. 🙂

  • Melissa Chapman May 18, 2017 03.55 pm

    I loved this post, so many great ideas I want to try, might try and am afraid I might like too much. You and your husband are lucky to experience all those things or even some of those things.

  • Lily@militaryfamof8 May 18, 2017 04.23 pm

    Oh wow! These are awesome ideas! I will be a big help to be more in a strong relationship with your partner.

  • Virjinia May 18, 2017 04.47 pm

    Those are super cool date ideas. We don’t have kids yet but I’m sure my husband would enjoy trying the out!

  • Prime Beauty Blog (@PrimeBeauty50) May 18, 2017 06.05 pm

    So many great unique ideas. It’s so easy to do the same old same old. Sometimes you gotta try something new to reconnect.

  • Blythe Alpern (@blythea) May 18, 2017 06.08 pm

    I love the idea of going on a more creative date. There are so many on this list I would love to try out. I’ve got the binge watching down to an art form, so I might need to try the ideas that require getting out of my house out first.

  • Dwan ~ The Places We Travel May 18, 2017 08.01 pm

    I love this list. My husband and I have tried a few but I cannot wait to try the indoor skydiving place. We have one local.

  • reesann723 May 18, 2017 10.04 pm

    Such great ideas!!!! We have a skydiving place like that about 45 min away. I was telling my husband and he loved the idea!

  • almostindianwife May 19, 2017 01.13 am

    Wow I love this. I’ve been married for almost 8 years now and we definitely got into a routine with ours. We need to change things up a bit.

  • Tereza (@cityscapebliss) May 19, 2017 11.34 am

    These are fantastic tips even for those who are not married – all these would be great to learn more about the other person no matter what stage in life you are! x

  • Roxanne May 19, 2017 11.35 am

    These all sound fun and super cool! My husband is an introvert so we tend to stick to the same food choices b/c it’s easier, but would love to change it up!

  • Amber Battishill May 19, 2017 02.16 pm

    Love this list! The indoor skydiving looks like so much fun! I definitely am going to try to find one near me.

  • adawnpaxton May 19, 2017 03.33 pm

    I would love to do all of these! We are nearing our 7th anniversary and these would be great ideas to help us celebrate!

  • Jeanine May 19, 2017 09.13 pm

    These are all great tips and advice. I wish I could do more dates but when we do we appreciate one another more and enjoy the time we have.

  • Jalisa Marie May 20, 2017 01.55 am

    These are all great ideas. I’m still newly married. Only one year in but its always a work in progress.

  • Heydy May 20, 2017 05.43 am

    Indoor sky diving has been on my list for a while. Once I pop this baby out and get the ok, I’m on it !!

  • Claire Bear May 20, 2017 05.43 pm

    This list is super helpful!! Thank you for sharing 🙂 I’ve been wanting to try indoor sky diving!

  • Heather May 20, 2017 08.18 pm

    My husband loves brewing beer – I am more of a gardener, so this year I am going to plant him some hops for his beer, and hopefully it will turn out well! These are all great ideas. The best for us to take a long drive, and let the kids all fall asleep in the car 🙂 Uninterrupted talking time for us!

  • Mommy Engineering May 22, 2017 03.52 pm

    Wow amazing! This looks liek so much fun but I don’t know if I could ever skydive! I’d love to check out these other ideas though!


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